Posts Tagged ‘AOL’

Recently I was privileged to listen to Eames Demetrios, the famous grandson of the Eames design family, give a talk about how “scale is the new geography.” It called to mind a time back in the late 1990s, when I wrote the strategy to relaunch AOL into Australasia. They’d utilized their marketing model from the U.S. (flood the market with CDs) to gain a small foothold, but they wanted to be a dominant player, as they were back home. Their business was all about scale.

Scale met geography for me in 1999, where the scale of the Web and the social discourse happening on it (through instant messaging back then) was funneled into a town of 800 people on the northern coast of faraway Australia. I traveled there to chat with teens and their parents about AOL and Instant Messenger, to see how real Australians were adapting to this incredible innovation. I interviewed the parents, their kids, then the family together.

One set of parents pulled me aside and confided that they were worried about their son’s use of AOL Instant Messenger: “We only recognize five of the 25 people on his Buddy List. We don’t know who they are, whether they really are friends or, what we fear, some perverted predators. We ask him about it, but he just shrugs us off.”

Sound concerns for any parent then, and more so today, given the exponential growth in social media. So I talked to their son.

Now, this was a very small town. And it would have been easy to hear O’Ryan croon, “Just because I’m young doesn’t mean I don’t know how to play” and write him and the other teens off as simply inexperienced in the ways of the world. Right?

Not this 13-year-old boy. He told me there were kids at school he could be seen hanging out with and talking to, and kids he could not. But he found many of those “not” kids interesting, so he became online buddies with them. During the day he talked to the “right kids,” and at night he circumvented the social pressure, talking to whom he wanted to.

His natural ingenuity informed our strategy.

That boy is 23 now and possibly working for your company, buying your brand, or texting, blogging or tweeting about you. Right now.

Today’s version of that boy is a boy (or girl) on Main Street USA with the same smarts, an ability to see light where adults see shade and an innate ability to put social media to work to shape his world. But will you be in it?

Teens are talking about you. So are you really listening? Are you able to help and be useful to them?

There has never been a better time to listen to The Sisterhood. We will be listening. Join us.

Welcome to The Sisterhood blog, a forum for teenage girls and marketing professionals to exchange insights about what girls want and how marketers can give it to them.

It feels like a homecoming for me, since I’ve been working with teenagers almost since I was one myself. In 1989, I became president of a company that marketed career services to students through job fairs and a magazine. (The New York Times profiled me and said I “think young.”) In the 1990s, I organized focus groups at tweenager slumber parties for Levi’s and online for AOL, oversaw a daily viewer feedback system for the in-school TV network Channel One and was a key consultant on Esprit’s “What Would You Do to Change the World?” campaign, which cast Gwyneth Paltrow, then a student at UC Santa Barbara, in her first ad. I created the National Teen Summit for Clearasil, co-authored the Greetings from High School and Kids Online book series and was a creative consultant on Pepsi’s “It’s Like This” campaign, which ran on MTV in the early ’90s.

More recently, I reconnected with the teen market through the youth committee I helped pull together for the Bob Woodruff Foundation, which assists wounded warriors. Last year I launched the social-media-based fundraiser Tweet to ReMind.

But enough about me. I’ll be posting from time to time, but the point of this blog is to be a community—or, well, a Sisterhood—in which everyone gets to have her say and everyone is heard. Our contributors are a mix of teenage girls and marketing pros. Some postings will be for marketers about teen news, others by teens about teen life. We hope you’ll let us know what you think about both.

Our first two teen girl posts will be from Evelyn D., a 17-year-old at a private high school in Westchester County, N.Y., who helped us create The Sisterhood and will be working on it in the Euro PR offices this spring for her senior-year project, and her 16-year-old sister, Isabelle. They consider themselves best friends, share many friends (and clothes) and are very style-conscious yet also serious about the environment and the suffering in Darfur and Sudan. Evelyn and Isabelle helped me understand the powerful, intimate bond that teenage girls share with their sisters and best friends, and they are now serving as two of our 12 national spokespeople.

Another is Christine V., a 14-year-old freshman at a public high school in Nassau County, N.Y., with a special emphasis on music and the arts. She has been dancing since age 2 and is currently involved in drama, show choir, tap, jazz and ballet. She performs in several dance and theater productions a year and is rarely seen without her iPod.

I’m thrilled to have them on board.

We want you on board, too. Everyone from girls between the ages of 13 and 18 to marketing executives can join in. If you’d like to blog for us, see our guidelines. Here are some questions to get you started:

Why is a sister so sacred?

What’s the deal with teens and cell phones? Why are they always on? How much is too much?

What stresses you out, and what calms you down?