Posts Tagged ‘iPod’

Matt Donovan

Ah, the Memories

May. 8, 2010 by Matt Donovan

I have a terrible memory. People’s names? Terrible. Faces? OK-ish. “That time when we…”? Gone.

This is not to say I am forgetful. I can remember a particular market share stat or nuances of the politics surrounding a strategy I wrote ten years ago and still forget what I did last Thursday.

This is odd, as for me, growing up seemed to be all about remembering. School was one big memory challenge. We’d be taught “ends”: dates, times, places, events, famous people’s names—and with the popularity of multiple choice tests back then, your memory became your grade.

Looking back, it strikes me that adults controlled the public memory, and the end was what mattered.

One of our Sisters, Taryn, did a great post last week titled “Mobile Uploads,” and it got me thinking about how different things are today.

Today, there’s the Internet. It remembers everything, for all of us. And with Wikipedia, my parents would no longer have to update the encyclopedia every year for fear that their son would do his book report using old information.

But not only is memory itself infinite; now the ability to decide what gets remembered is, too. Devices of all shapes and sizes, from Flips to iPods, can help you capture and input moments, and even the moments between moments, into memory. Just like Taryn’s shot of her brother and father in 3D glasses—an instant family classic.

This allows for a much richer tapestry of our life to be documented. Our internal memories are public and shareable. Our unique perspective and treasures are there for all to share. The public memory has been democratized.

It reminds me of some work (I think it was for Kodak) done with teens and adults in the area of photography. They gave both groups cameras and asked them to document their life for a few weeks.

The semiology was fascinating. The majority of the adult photos were staged shots featuring people looking at the camera and saying “cheese.” Their photos were all “ends.” The teens, on the other hand, had taken photos of people and things largely in between these staged moments, then printed them out and used them to create collages with added text and images from magazines. Their photos were “beginnings.”

Why is this important? It is very easy to believe, even as a parent today, that being a teen is no different now than it was in our day. While that is debatable, what is not is that adults and teens forever see the world differently.

As brand owners, we are at a unique moment. We finally have the tools to see, understand, listen to and appreciate one another’s point of view. So why do most brands continue to choose to “research” teens or “communicate to” them, rather than collaborate and co-create better results together?

Instead of listening to Jeff, looking down the camera and saying “I am not smarter than a fifth grader,” by working with The Sisterhood, today’s brands can instead don some 3D glasses and co-create some new beginnings.

In the next few years, I will be deciding what college I want to go to. This is probably the biggest decision in my life so far, and I will only be 16 when I am making it! It’s great to have options and to be able to consider different choices, but sometimes I wish someone would just tell me, “Christine, you have to go to this school, and that’s it, period.” That way, if it’s the wrong decision, it’s not my fault.

There are so many things about this that make me nervous. What if I go away to school and I get really, really sick? I’m gonna miss my family, especially my little sister, and I will definitely miss my dog. I don’t know how to do laundry! What happens if I choose a major and hate it? What if I stay at home and then I’m miserable because everyone else goes away? There are many more things I could add to this list, and it feels like my brain will explode. So I don’t want to think about it right now.

This year, I want a year without any big decisions. I just want to be 14 going on 15, not 14 going on 20. I don’t want to hear about how I didn’t accept the research program in science that meant giving up my next three summers to be in a lab with a scientist…I don’t like science (thanks, Mom and Dad, for letting me blow it off). I make enough little decisions every day—that should add up to one big decision every week, and that should be enough.

Think about the pressure in my life and the life of a freshman in high school: Wake up at 5:45 to do my hair every day so I don’t look like a freak, be at the bus stop at 7 a.m. (gotta talk to Poppa and ask him to drive me, ’cause it’s too cold for this right now), keep up my grades, do all the after-school stuff, pick the right friends (the ones my parents approve of), go to dance classes and competitions, study, keep my room clean and more. I do love all of it, but there’s no time to think about the big stuff like college and careers, and even bigger stuff like child abuse, terrorism and global warming. Teenagers 30 years ago didn’t have to think about this stuff; why should we?

So if it’s OK, I promise to do everything I am supposed to do this year, and I will try to keep my room clean, and I won’t lose my iPod or my Uggs again. Let’s keep the decisions small for now. Sixteen is just around the corner.

When you wake up each morning, it’s that subtle song that keeps you relaxed and willing to get out of bed. When you’re getting dressed for a party or an evening out, it’s that upbeat song that pumps your heart and makes you want to sing and dance.

There’s a type of music for every mood. Music can cure your boredom or your sadness and can even put you right to sleep when you’re having a hard time keeping your eyes shut. It zones you out, sometimes in a bad way. But most of the time it lets you forget things you’re worrying about, or just those random thoughts running through your mind.

Music also brings back memories. When you turn on the radio or a random song comes up on shuffle on your iPod, you start remembering the time when the song was popular. Then there are those (sometimes annoying) songs that get stuck in your head. You start humming or singing them and you don’t even realize you’re doing it until a friend tells you to stop.

And there are definitely moments in your life when you wish there was music playing. It’s unfair how in movies, music is always playing in the background, but in real life, nobody’s carrying a boom box around! Putting on some music can make certain situations a whole lot less awkward.

Some songs have true meanings to them, and others are made just to make you laugh. Some are made to express feelings, and others are written to celebrate special times.

Music gives people an excuse to sing or dance. It’s the reason you might stay in your room a minute longer, so you can finish listening to your favorite song on the radio. One of the best things about music is having the chance to hear your favorite band play live. That gets you psyched on a whole new level.

Music is a necessity that teenagers cannot possibly live without. It can sometimes do things that people can’t. It doesn’t judge you or tell you what to do; it lifts your aura and gives you a feeling of complete, surrounding peace and happiness.

Morgan M.

My Life as…Morgan

Feb. 11, 2010 by Morgan M.

The people, places and stories you are about to see are all real…at least the way I see it.

Love & Rockets,

Morgan

P.S. MTV made me do this.

Between keeping my grades up, my ski schedule, cheerleading and my family and friends, my life is insanely busy. Monday night at 10:30 p.m., though, is my guilty pleasure: “My Life as Liz” is on MTV. (You really should set your TiVo or DVR.)

The show asks, Do you feel alone? Do you think you’re an outcast? It inspires the girl who feels like a loner to realize that other girls feel the same way.

Liz Lee is a girl from Burleson, Texas, who used to be part of the “in” crowd. That changed when she found people she actually clicked with. The show follows the journey that is her senior year. She’s doing anything she can to fight off the popular kids while hanging out with a shy kid from AP English named Bryson (shhh, don’t tell anyone, but she likes him).

For quite some time, I thought that if I put on a front that “I’m a cheerleader,” I’d be accepted. But I’m definitely not the snobby, skinny thing everyone makes cheerleaders out to be. It turns out I spend the littlest amount of time possible with the girls on my squad. They are very self-absorbed. All they seem to care about is how short the skirts are and how hot No. 21 on the basketball team is. I sit alone every other day in the lunchroom. I would be so glad to have Liz at my school, because I feel like she feels the same way I do. (But in a way, I am stuck in the character Taylor Terry’s world. She wants to be friends with Liz, but her friends threaten to kick her out of their group.)

Yeah, so, I have guy friends. But I don’t get asked out and, no, I do not have a boyfriend. No one even wants to be my lab partner in biology. I feel like they think they’re better than me because I’m nice to the kids who have issues of their own, and the “poplars” think that’s gross. I am really quiet during the school day. I think school is meant for learning and growing up and not deciding on who you will marry at 15.

I am willing to say hi to anyone, but sometimes the responses are not G-rated. For example, I’ll have a lot of books and the gym door will be shut and I’ll ask someone to hold it, and they’ll accuse me of being a b——. Still, I somehow ended up with over a thousand friends on Facebook. I don’t get out much because I am attached to my 1990s Dell computer that’s been temporarily slowed down thanks to my brother’s “Call of Duty” craze. (I guess you could say I’m like the peanut butter and the Dell is the jelly here.) I own a cell phone. I do not have an iPod, hence my obsession with YouTube. I listen to almost anything and also wear pretty much anything, from preppy all the way down to leopard-print pants and oversize T-shirts. I wear glasses; I just don’t like things near or in my eyes, so no contacts. (Not to mention how my glasses look like 1980s pop-out-type shades that are making their way on back.)

Liz reminds me that from someone else’s perspective I could appear perfectly happy, even if I feel otherwise. But I have no choice but to be me, so I’m going to be me, and you can be you. I tell myself to break free of that clique mold.

There will always be the girl with the cutest bag, highest heels and what have you, or the football player with the varsity jacket who you wish would someday hold your hand. That’s never going away.

Watching “Liz” shows me that I can be a cheerleader but still rock my bleached camp T with my nickname across the back. I’m going to live “My Life as Morgan.” Hey, that does have a ring to it…MTV?

Welcome to The Sisterhood blog, a forum for teenage girls and marketing professionals to exchange insights about what girls want and how marketers can give it to them.

It feels like a homecoming for me, since I’ve been working with teenagers almost since I was one myself. In 1989, I became president of a company that marketed career services to students through job fairs and a magazine. (The New York Times profiled me and said I “think young.”) In the 1990s, I organized focus groups at tweenager slumber parties for Levi’s and online for AOL, oversaw a daily viewer feedback system for the in-school TV network Channel One and was a key consultant on Esprit’s “What Would You Do to Change the World?” campaign, which cast Gwyneth Paltrow, then a student at UC Santa Barbara, in her first ad. I created the National Teen Summit for Clearasil, co-authored the Greetings from High School and Kids Online book series and was a creative consultant on Pepsi’s “It’s Like This” campaign, which ran on MTV in the early ’90s.

More recently, I reconnected with the teen market through the youth committee I helped pull together for the Bob Woodruff Foundation, which assists wounded warriors. Last year I launched the social-media-based fundraiser Tweet to ReMind.

But enough about me. I’ll be posting from time to time, but the point of this blog is to be a community—or, well, a Sisterhood—in which everyone gets to have her say and everyone is heard. Our contributors are a mix of teenage girls and marketing pros. Some postings will be for marketers about teen news, others by teens about teen life. We hope you’ll let us know what you think about both.

Our first two teen girl posts will be from Evelyn D., a 17-year-old at a private high school in Westchester County, N.Y., who helped us create The Sisterhood and will be working on it in the Euro PR offices this spring for her senior-year project, and her 16-year-old sister, Isabelle. They consider themselves best friends, share many friends (and clothes) and are very style-conscious yet also serious about the environment and the suffering in Darfur and Sudan. Evelyn and Isabelle helped me understand the powerful, intimate bond that teenage girls share with their sisters and best friends, and they are now serving as two of our 12 national spokespeople.

Another is Christine V., a 14-year-old freshman at a public high school in Nassau County, N.Y., with a special emphasis on music and the arts. She has been dancing since age 2 and is currently involved in drama, show choir, tap, jazz and ballet. She performs in several dance and theater productions a year and is rarely seen without her iPod.

I’m thrilled to have them on board.

We want you on board, too. Everyone from girls between the ages of 13 and 18 to marketing executives can join in. If you’d like to blog for us, see our guidelines. Here are some questions to get you started:

Why is a sister so sacred?

What’s the deal with teens and cell phones? Why are they always on? How much is too much?

What stresses you out, and what calms you down?